Gary and Amber seemed to like each other until he suddenly disappeared a few weeks ago. Amber was desperate and reported his disappearance to the police. Meanwhile, she expressed her fears in a video: She was terrified something would happen to Gary and she had no idea where he was. Surprisingly, many thought so teen MomFans were right that Amber had something to do with his disappearance, and she was even accused of killing him.

In the end, this turned out not to be the case, and Gary himself spoke out over the weekend: he called the police and indicated that he was fine and had voluntarily disappeared. For Amber, this was a slap in the face, especially since Gary had also stopped contacting her. And now it appears that the engagement has also been called off. “They have decided that it is over,” says a source close to Amber. “So many things have happened that they can’t continue together.”

Thankfully, it seems like Amber and Gary have finally talked it out. “He’s definitely not freaking her out,” the source said. “Amber took off her engagement ring and that’s a good thing. She’s very sad and concerned about him, but she now realizes he’s not the right man for her. She wants to be with someone who accepts her for who she is.”

It appears that Gary’s family also had a hand in the split. According to the source, they were not happy at all with the engagement. “Gary’s family looked her up online and read all about her past. This was very difficult for Amber because she did her best to overcome this and better herself.”