Ozcan Akyol reveals the secret behind a good relationship: “Don’t stay together for a long time” | RTL Street

Özcan Akyol deelt geheim achter goede relatie: 'Niet te lang samenzijn'

Eleven years ago, Ozcan Akyol (40), known as Eos, and Anna van den Bremer (40) met in Bockenball. The spark flew instantly and the couple had two children together. In an interview with “Nouveau”, Eus and Anna tell us the secret behind their good relationship.

“I felt like I would have to recover for a week if I saw you.”

In 2013 Eos and Anna met at the Book Ball. “There was an instant attraction. I thought Anna was dazzlingly beautiful,” Eos says in the double interview. From the first moment Eos felt that Anna was the woman of his dreams. “I don’t think I thought at the time that she would become a mother to my children. There was a lot of curiosity and excitement.”

After that evening, Eos and Anna sent letters to each other back and forth. “Then it became more serious,” Anna says. “At first I found it difficult to date you. I felt like I had to recover for a week after seeing you.” Before she started her relationship with Eos, she had made a rational decision to not limit herself to the relationship anymore. “You can get overwhelmed with positive energy. If it reaches your fibers everywhere in your body and you have to walk on your toes to be together, the positive energy can also be destructive,” Eos explains.

Before her relationship with Eos, Anna had reached a point where she was happy with her life and was afraid of losing it. “We got to know each other better and were able to turn the hectic feeling into a relaxed feeling when we were together.” From that moment it became clear to Anna: “It’s fine the way it is.”

Anna is Eos’s stabilizing factor in his life. He works extremely hard and Anna understands that, but she regularly holds a mirror up to him. “Anna sometimes says it’s not healthy. Not because she wants me to come home more often, but because it’s at the expense of the quality of the work. She says, for example: ‘You’re not having fun.'”

Eus and Anna never forbid each other from anything and try to keep each other completely free. “Eos teaches me to chart my own course and protect my time,” Anna explains. “I was very fond of being everyone’s friend, and for a long time I turned a blind eye to the behavior of others, even when this was not actually possible.”

The secret behind their good relationship is that they do a lot of things together, but also separately. “We shouldn’t be together for too long, I think that’s the secret of our relationship,” says Anna. If you do things separately, you will have space to miss each other and miss each other, Eos explains. “It also means going back to Anna’s house, and then I feel truly complete.”

The couple describes their relationship as a well-oiled machine. “We’re in tune with each other. It’s all about familiar actions.” In addition to working hard, they also try to have as much fun as possible, but this is sometimes difficult for Eos. “I have not yet mastered enough pleasure. I can sometimes think: This family happiness that I feel now, is going well. (…) To be honest, I find it very difficult to believe that this happiness has been given to a person what”. I.”

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